Something which I will never take for granted is my work from home days. Flexible working. For 18-months now I have been fortunate to work from home 2-days each week, which allows me to be, in my opinion a better mummy to Lil G. Why? Because on the other 3-days I commute to Manchester which means that on average I get to see my little boy for 2-hours a day. It isn’t enough. The days are longer, the days are tougher and if the trains are delayed, that only impacts on my time with Lil G.
My work from home days allow me the flexibility of walking Lil G to and from Kindergarten. Where we walk hand in hand, often talking about the day ahead, or what we have done. Precious moments. It is the time of day when Lil G is most chatty and more often than not in just the sweetest mood. It is for this moment that I thankful…
I am thankful because our mornings are not so rushed. If we want to enjoy an extra long snuggle, we can. If we want to eat our breakfast picnic stylee on the floor whilst watching Peter Rabbit we can. On my commuting days this just isn’t possible. Our morning routine is much more like a military operation. To get up, to get ready, to get out.
What happened yesterday made me stop and count my lucky stars for being present. As I was upstairs preparing Lil G’s bag for Kindergarten, I heard him shout… mummy I would like my cereal now please. Until today, he would wait for me to prepare his breakfast for him. Not yesterday. Before I could even make it into the kitchen I could hear my gorgeous little boy helping himself to his cereal. As I peaked around the door I could see that the cheeky little monkey had chosen Daddy’s coco pops. Not a recommended start to the day but do you know what it made me smile. It made me stop and think. Today was just another sign of how quickly my gorgeous boy is growing up. He is becoming more independent. And if it wasn’t for my working from home days this may never have happened. I may not have witnessed this rather cute moment. My big boy was making his own breakfast.
And now it is your turn…
What has made you stop and Count Your Lucky Stars? Link up a new or an old post, one that expresses what you are thankful for. If this is your first time visiting this link up then do take a read of my introduction post for more details.
Do pop over to my beautiful co host Sian who blogs at Potty Mouthed Mummy to see what she is thankful for.
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Oh bab they are growing up so fast aren’t they. It is nice in a way but also sometimes makes me a little sad. Some of the things they girl comes out with now she is at pre-school it is astounding! Fab linky xxx
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You’re right honey, I find myself feeling sad about it. Up until now I’ve welcomed every birthday and milestone like changing groups at Kindergarten but I’m not sure I’ll be coping too well when he turns 4 x
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Aah KA what a sweetie! It’s funny you’ve written this as Freddie has been the same lately- getting the cereal from the cupboard, and even the milk out now he can actually open our fridge! They are growing up indeed 🙂 I’m hoping this might mean we can have a lie in within the next couple of years, although that’s probably wishful thinking! x PS SO lovely to see you last weekend! x
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Hello lovely, he did it again this morning and I thought the exact same things, does this mean I get to enjoy a cuppa in my bed! Yay. And then he reminded me that he can’t yet switch the TV on! Dam. Lovely to meet you last week too honey x
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It’s so lovely to have that time with him in the morning when you are relaxed and the walk the school is always my favourtie time of the day with Lucas. Love that he went for the Coco Pops, an obvious choice! xx #CountLuckyStars
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I used to love walking to nursery and school with my Mum. They are so vivid and I enjoyed running and chatting to her. I can’t wait to do it with mine. Thank for reminding me of such an every day but wonderful moment xx
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Heh I have just found your lovely link up. And what a great linky it is. I love thinking about everything I have, reminding myself how truly grateful
I am. And when I get to read other mums posts about how lucky they feel it confirms every beautiful moment I experience in my journey into motherhood. Thank you for hosting. Tanita x
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Aaah, I’m so with you on this! My boys started nursery for two long mornings a week and already they’re doing things I’ve not taught them! They grow SO fast it makes my head spin!! Love the idea for this linky! I’m constantly counting my lucky stars — I so very nearly wasn’t a mummy — the fact that I’ve been blessed with TWO beautiful boys makes me more grateful than I could possibly ever say x #CountYourLuckyStars
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Oh this is lovely. I am a SAHM at the moment and I am grateful every day for all the little things I get to experience and witness with Elsa. Just something small like discovering a new word or trying something new can be so special.
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What a cutie pie. It’s amazing how quickly they grow up. I love the pic of you two holding hands. I love holding hands with my little boy. It fills my heart with such contentment! x
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Thank you honey and I completely agree, so much contentment x
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I love that he gives you so much joy!
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When I read about your flexible working, I am so hopeful that my company is beginning to offer it soon – it looks that way. Just to be able to be around a bit more instead of commuting on the train. I love the story about Lil G and the cereal…these are moments to cherish #CountLuckyStars
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Aww how cute, and coco pops are a good choice for a treat day hehe =)
I love being able to spend time with Boo, when I was working I found the days too long and felt that those two days a week I worked I didn’t get to see her at all, so I am grateful I am now able to stay at home with Boo.
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These are the sort of moments that I am so grateful for since deciding to stay home, I missed so many of the things when the boys were little. Lovely post x
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Time does fly and it’s scary. My little boys most days does something new that really makes me sit back and think he’s getting so big! What a lovely moment you got to witness tho xx
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having a big count my lucky starts moment this week as my youngest is having his first birthday. Thanks for hosting.
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They grow up way too fast! I’m grateful to have the option to work part time so I can spend more time with my tot x
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Aww, bless him! Such a cutie. I think you’ve struck the perfect balance between work and home K-A. It’s a tricky thing to master but Lil G seems to be thriving in your little routine! 🙂 Such a lovely linky idea, huge congrats on it! Xx
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Thank you beautiful lady! I agree, he gets so much from Kindergarten that benefits him long term x
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Awww, such a little cutie. Two days a week my mother in law looks after O at our house and for those mornings we don’t have to rush because he doesn’t need to be dressed before I leave and we don’t have to factor in time for a drop off so we have time for an extra snuggle in bed, my favourite time of the day!
Thank you for hosting lovely xxx
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Thank you for popping by! Time is precious x
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You really do appreciate the time you have with your little ones when your away from them often. You don’t take anything for granted x
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I think you have to as these moments just pass you by x
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I work from home too and it honestly is a godsend. I still moan though about not having office chats and tea break with real life people but you are right it is a privilege to witness all those moments xx #countyourluckystars
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Thank you for popping by, see I guess I have the best of both worlds, office & home! x
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I am quite new to this linky thing but loving it! x
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Thank you for joining in and yay for the linky journey. It’s a lovely way to find new blogs you love. Just ask if you have any questions my love x #CountLuckyStars
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Adore this, he is such a cutie! Thank you for co-hosting #countluckystars with me. It’s amazing to be doing this with you lovely xxx
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You are such a sweetie. Yay for #CountLuckyStars going live and for hosting together! Team mates as Lil G would say! x
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I always give a little Ahhh every time I see your IG pics of you and little G walking to nursery, I can really tell how special that time is for the two of you!!
It’s gorgeous!
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Thank you honey, it really is. Those two days are the most precious of my time with him. Thank you for joining in to #CountLuckyStars and 1st link up means a prize surely! x
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Haha I think so 🙂 you’re very welcome lovely!! Great link up xx
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That is a lovely photo, this linky is my new favourite!x
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Yay I love that comment. You are my favourite for saying it! Ha ha. It’s a sweet moment that’s for sure #CountLuckyStars x
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